A BIG reframe on motivating your kids is to……

I often fine when working with parents they are still working from an external mindset. In other words, to motivate their kids they utilize external consequences, most particularly made up ones don't work particularly well,  or parents resort to some sort of external pressure. The key word here is external. If you truly want your kids to be motivated the key is to help them find their own internal motivation. The goal is for them to become internally motivated instead of externally pressured. In closing, I am grateful you read this - thank you.